Borrowed from parenting. you're thoughts?

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xacoon, May 17, 4:49pm
I cant see anywhere a post that was trying to make this into an "anti john thread". your reaction to some simple advice from someone who has been on these boards for a long time, is what changed the tack of this thread. I am sticking by my advice, maybe with a lighten up addition to it.

johnf_456, May 17, 4:51pm
Well you are saying its all about me when I am being neutral, to the point everyone including me needs to work better at getting on. I don't need advice and the fact you direct at me specifically says so otherwise that its about me. Its not like you have said about others in motoring other than me.

The reality is you have probably been here the same amount of time has myself looking at profiles.

xacoon, May 17, 4:54pm
hahahahahaha

johnf_456, May 17, 4:56pm
Well its true, what advice do you have rather than trying to direct it at me like I am the problem and no one else does nothing wrong. Yes some people may bend over and take it because its considered okay but I am not like that.

But in saying that I have taken your views into consideration, I'm just a hard and serious man.

xacoon, May 17, 5:00pm
coz most others can take a ribbing and the ones that cant are generally not worth giving advice to. dove shot down! gotcha. your call.

xacoon, May 17, 5:05pm
ah after post edit. nice. i really should quote more often.

johnf_456, May 17, 5:10pm
Ands what wrong with editting or adding a thing you forgot to add. Since i am in a hurry. Do you all ever do is like specifically trying lecture people, this thread is about everyone not just me. Just a thought.

rob_man, May 17, 5:13pm
Nothing, there was also no reproof in coon's post. He was berating himself.

xacoon, May 17, 5:16pm
well spotted, thanks rob man

ralphdog1, May 17, 6:12pm
Well there we go then.
Johnf_456, go back and read the last paragraph of post #3.
Then go and read all 11 of your posts.
Don't immediately reply.go and sit on the couch and have a wee think, make it a big think if you like.
Ask yourself:
1. Has this thread turned into a pissing contest!
2. Could someone have avoided that eventuality!
3. Am I getting at someone with this post!
4. Or am I actually wanting everyone who currently can't understand the concept of workshop humour to actually stand back and think.!
5. It's a motoring MB, why would we not want to engage in workshop humour!

Once it becomes reply time, all we need is the numbers above and yes or no for each. Strip of the emotion, lets see how you really tick.

flat_white_ltd, May 17, 6:12pm
EXCUSE ME FOR SHOUTING.
.But where the Farq has the O.P. gone. not another one, surely !
WTF!
Falling like flies.

johnf_456, May 17, 6:14pm
You are not worth replying to, but what you saying is its not motoring if humor and slanging matches go out insulting one another is involved. As I have said this thread is not about me its about everyone been nice to each other, so take the attention away from here and put it into positive energy. WorkshopsI have and worked in consider this the same towards it, its basically bully's that have never grown up from school.

flat_white_ltd, May 17, 6:16pm
& you can farq off too.

xacoon, May 17, 6:17pm
hey man, don't make this thread all about you.

ralphdog1, May 17, 6:18pm
Thank you for your deep and long consideration (all 2 mins of it)

No, I am not saying "its not motoring if humor and slanging matches go out insulting one another" because that insinuates that it is required.
What I am saying is in real life in the motoring enviroment it is common, why would it not happen in here!
For Gods sake, get over yourself or get out, you are spoiling it for so many, .however I doubt you are able to see that.

johnf_456, May 17, 6:20pm
Thank for your opinion, but that is your opinion and it stands at that. If you don't like it ignore it. I will continue to be here regardless what you and others in this thread think.

cowboy110, May 17, 6:23pm
Much like this thread is going to go down the $#!ter very soon too I'm guessing.Just like the "papa" thread.

xacoon, May 17, 6:27pm
I reckon if it was just about motoring on here it would be boring as. bit of banter is good. met some great people on here, topic usually goes off motoring, thats how you get to know someone. otherwise you end up being the guy at the party no one talks to coz he is a car bore.

xacoon, May 17, 6:39pm
dont remember saying that. damn alsymers.

jmma, May 17, 7:25pm
I think you have hit the nail on the head xacoon, people become friends in here cause they get to know each other, what they do, what they drive etc.
I don't post much but do enjoy reading most post and relearning my trade, humour and piss taking was always part of workshops I worked in. I was even a Foreman at a Toyota dealership and must admit, encouraged it in the workshop, great enviroment.
Someone that posts on 250 posts in a month, needs to get a job or a life or both.
I think just ignore his every post like he is not there and everyone else just keep being helpful and funny, Thanks, Mark

johnf_456, May 17, 7:27pm
Thanks mark but I do have a job, just that I am currently off mechanic's dutys while recovering from a bad back injury. So I am very much limited physically on what mechanic dutys I can do, I'm sure you have had injurys also in the work place. But do share more why posting a lot makes someone bad and needs to get a life / job.

I do help but you just choose to not see it, come on I want to try and get on better with everyone you included. So lets try to get on, I want to make an effort.

sr2, May 17, 7:28pm
I have to agree with you on that point!

flat_white_ltd, May 17, 7:31pm
Dude. do you EVER stop talking about yourself!
farq off.

johnf_456, May 17, 7:34pm
No need for that I am actually trying to get on, despite the hatred I still seam to be getting for god knows why because posting too much makes me a bad person. I want try and get on and yourself included needs to get on better, so everyone needs to work better and cut this negative crap.

I don't see you getting crap every day of your life.

iron_butterfly, May 17, 7:35pm
That's prolly he cos he doesn't spend all day on here talking about himself